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Thomas "Tom" Relevitch, BACP

Experienced UK therapist for relationships and anxiety
  • Stress and anxiety support
  • Relationship and LGBT support
  • Flexible online sessions

About Thomas "Tom" Relevitch

Thomas "Tom" Relevitch is a UK-based therapist with 10 years of professional experience who works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties and life transitions. He holds BACP credentialing - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - and brings a respectful, nonjudgmental approach to work that helps clients explore their thoughts and feelings openly.

Tom integrates client-centered, psychodynamic and solution-focused methods, tailoring his approach to each person’s needs. He has particular experience supporting LGBT clients and those navigating issues such as abandonment, attachment difficulties, BDSM and kink related concerns, communication problems, infidelity, separation, loneliness and questions about life purpose. He also offers coaching for people dealing with midlife shifts, men’s issues and polyamory or non-monogamous relationship dynamics.

In sessions Tom aims to create an approachable space where clients feel heard and understood. He recognises that reaching out for help can feel daunting and values the trust involved in beginning therapy. Most of his availability is between 12 noon (GMT) and 5 pm (GMT), Monday to Thursday, and he provides services in English to clients in the United Kingdom and internationally.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCommunication problemsDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Thomas "Tom" Relevitch have?

Tom has 10 years of professional experience supporting clients with a range of concerns including stress, anxiety, relationship issues and life changes.

Is Thomas "Tom" Relevitch a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the BACP credential, which is the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy professional credential in the UK.

In which languages does Thomas "Tom" Relevitch provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is Thomas "Tom" Relevitch located?

Tom is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Thomas "Tom" Relevitch as my therapist?

You can work with Tom through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Thomas "Tom" Relevitch work with international clients?

Yes, Tom works with international clients in addition to those based in the United Kingdom.

How much does therapy with Thomas "Tom" Relevitch cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could remote therapy be a good match for you?

Many people find that therapy delivered online fits well with their daily life and addresses common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges and major life transitions. For many conditions these remote options can be as helpful as meeting in person, offering a practical route to consistent support.

One of the main advantages is flexibility - clients can choose the format that feels most comfortable, whether that is video sessions, phone conversations, live chat or in-app messaging. This range of options makes it easier to maintain regular work on personal goals even when schedules are busy or travel is difficult.

Licensed professionals and therapists provide services remotely, and clients can change therapists if they feel a different fit would be more helpful. For people balancing work, family and other commitments, online therapy can make it simpler to prioritise emotional wellbeing while still accessing experienced, trained support.

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