Richard Alongi, LMFT

California LMFT for relationships and recovery

Addictions and recovery
Relationship and intimacy
Self-esteem and motivation

About Richard Alongi

Richard Alongi is a California-licensed LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who works with people facing addictions, relationship and intimacy concerns, and challenges with motivation, self-esteem, and confidence. He frames his work around respect, sensitivity, and compassion, creating a therapeutic space where clients can explore difficult topics and build new coping strategies.

He adapts conversation and treatment plans to reflect each person’s unique circumstances and goals, emphasizing a collaborative approach that meets clients where they are. Acknowledging that beginning therapy can take courage, he affirms that taking that first step is an important move toward change and growth.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Addictions Relationship issues Trauma and abuse Intimacy-related issues Self esteem

Also Specializes In

Stress, Anxiety Grief Anger management Career difficulties Depression Coping with life changes Coaching Compassion fatigue ADHD

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFatherhood issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Imago Relationship Therapy Jungian Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Psychodynamic Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Richard Alongi have?

Richard Alongi has 36 years of professional experience.

Is Richard Alongi a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the LMFT credential - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details: CA LMFT 19896.

In which languages does Richard Alongi provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is Richard Alongi located?

He is located in California.

How can I work with Richard Alongi as my therapist?

You can work with Richard Alongi through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Richard Alongi work with international clients?

Richard Alongi does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Richard Alongi cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could Remote Therapy Be a Good Fit for You?

Many people wonder whether online therapy can produce meaningful benefits. For common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, or navigating life changes, online therapy has been shown to be just as effective as traditional in-person sessions.

One major advantage is flexibility - individuals can connect in the format that suits them best, including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging. This adaptability makes it easier to fit therapeutic support into busy schedules and varied lifestyles.

Licensed professionals offer care through these different formats, and you may switch therapists if you feel a different fit would be better. For many people, remote counseling provides a practical, effective way to access ongoing support and work toward personal goals.

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