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Katherine Oakenshield, LMFT

Queer-affirming LMFT for relationships
  • LGBT and kink-competent
  • Attachment-based approaches
  • Video phone and chat sessions

About Katherine Oakenshield

Katherine Oakenshield is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in Arizona with four years of clinical experience. They identify as non-binary and bring an affirming, culturally aware approach to working with clients from queer, kink, and ethically non-monogamous communities as well as those exploring gender, sexuality, and relationship structures. Katherine integrates a broad range of clinical methods to tailor care to each person’s needs, drawing on approaches such as Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems, and mindfulness-informed practices.

Katherine’s specialties include relationship and family concerns, intimacy-related issues, parenting, stress and anxiety, depression, self-esteem, and coaching for life purpose and transitions. They also work with issues related to attachment, body image, sexual functioning, polyamory and non-monogamous relationships, gender dysphoria, and exploration of BDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultures. Katherine emphasizes practical tools for communication, healing patterns rooted in attachment, and building self-compassion and agency, while adapting techniques to fit each person’s goals and values.

In sessions, Katherine centers respectful curiosity and collaboration, helping people clarify what matters to them and take manageable steps toward change. Their training and eclectic clinical toolbox support both short-term solution-focused work and deeper exploratory therapy, depending on what a client needs. As an LMFT, Katherine holds a professional license to treat individuals, couples, and families, and aims to create a space where diverse identities and relationship styles are understood and supported.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Additional Focus Areas

Attachment issuesBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCommunication problemsGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameLife purposePolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsSelf-loveSexual dysfunctionSexualityWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Gottman Method Jungian Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Katherine Oakenshield have?

Katherine Oakenshield has 4 years of clinical experience.

Is Katherine Oakenshield a licensed therapist?

Yes. Katherine holds the LMFT credential, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details: AZ LMFT LMFT-15607.

In which languages does Katherine Oakenshield provide therapy?

Katherine provides therapy in English.

Where is Katherine Oakenshield located?

Katherine is located in Arizona.

How can I work with Katherine Oakenshield as my therapist?

You can work with Katherine Oakenshield through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Katherine Oakenshield work with international clients?

Katherine Oakenshield does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Katherine Oakenshield cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could Remote Therapy Be the Right Choice?

Many people wonder whether remote therapy can make a meaningful difference. For common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, and life transitions, online therapy has been shown to be just as effective as traditional in-person sessions.

One major benefit is flexibility. People can meet with a therapist in the format that fits their routine and comfort level - via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging. This flexibility can make it easier to maintain consistency and incorporate therapy into a busy life.

Licensed professionals offer a range of clinical approaches online, and individuals can change therapists if they need a different fit. For many, remote therapy provides an accessible way to get focused support while working toward personal goals.

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