John Alilovich, LMFT
Experienced LMFT focused on relationships and trauma
- Relationship focus
- Trauma informed
- 40 years experience
About John Alilovich
John Alilovich is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, holding the LMFT credential which indicates training in marriage and family therapy and clinical practice in California. He brings four decades of clinical experience to work that began with more than fifteen years serving children and families in the county mental health department, where his focus included substance addiction, domestic violence, relationship concerns, abuse, parenting challenges, and LGBTQ families. He established a private practice concurrently and has provided ongoing clinical care across a wide range of presenting concerns for 40 years.
His therapeutic approach is warm and personal, rooted in the belief that each person is the expert on their own life. He emphasizes collaborative goal setting and practical solutions that fit an individual’s circumstances, offering sensitivity, respect, and a nonjudgmental stance while getting to know each person as a unique individual. He commonly incorporates Emotion-Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems alongside mindfulness practices and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and he draws from a broad set of modalities such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based approaches, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Psychodynamic work, Somatic and Trauma-Focused therapies, and Internal Family Systems to tailor treatment to the client’s needs.
John’s areas of specialty include relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, intimacy issues, depression, compassion fatigue, stress and anxiety, addictions, LGBT matters, family and parenting concerns, grief, eating and sleeping challenges, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes. He also works with issues related to abandonment, adoption and foster care, attachment, autism and Asperger Syndrome, blended family dynamics, codependency, divorce and separation, family of origin problems, fatherhood issues, forgiveness, infidelity, intellectual disability, jealousy, and questions of life purpose. Though his style is personable and grounded in empathy, he emphasizes matching therapeutic methods to what will be most beneficial for each individual.
His therapeutic approach is warm and personal, rooted in the belief that each person is the expert on their own life. He emphasizes collaborative goal setting and practical solutions that fit an individual’s circumstances, offering sensitivity, respect, and a nonjudgmental stance while getting to know each person as a unique individual. He commonly incorporates Emotion-Focused Therapy and Internal Family Systems alongside mindfulness practices and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and he draws from a broad set of modalities such as Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Attachment-Based approaches, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, Psychodynamic work, Somatic and Trauma-Focused therapies, and Internal Family Systems to tailor treatment to the client’s needs.
John’s areas of specialty include relationship difficulties, trauma and abuse, intimacy issues, depression, compassion fatigue, stress and anxiety, addictions, LGBT matters, family and parenting concerns, grief, eating and sleeping challenges, self-esteem, career questions, bipolar disorder, and coping with life changes. He also works with issues related to abandonment, adoption and foster care, attachment, autism and Asperger Syndrome, blended family dynamics, codependency, divorce and separation, family of origin problems, fatherhood issues, forgiveness, infidelity, intellectual disability, jealousy, and questions of life purpose. Though his style is personable and grounded in empathy, he emphasizes matching therapeutic methods to what will be most beneficial for each individual.
Areas of Expertise
Primary Focus
Also Specializes In
Additional Focus Areas
AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBlended family issuesCodependencyDivorce and separationFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessInfidelityIntellectual disabilityJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisMood disordersObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualityWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues
Therapeutic Approach
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems
Frequently Asked Questions
How much experience does John Alilovich have?
John Alilovich has 40 years of experience in clinical work, including both public mental health settings and private practice.
Is John Alilovich a licensed therapist?
Yes. He holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. His license details are CA LMFT MFT27006.
In which languages does John Alilovich provide therapy?
John provides therapy in English.
Where is John Alilovich located?
John is located in California.
How can I work with John Alilovich as my therapist?
You can work with John through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
Does John Alilovich work with international clients?
Yes, John works with international clients.
How much does therapy with John Alilovich cost?
The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.
How can I get started with therapy?
Getting started is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with a therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.
Could Remote Therapy Be a Good Fit?
Online therapy can be an effective option for many common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and navigating life transitions. Research supports that for these kinds of issues, remote sessions can offer outcomes comparable to traditional in-person care.One of the most practical benefits is flexibility. People can connect with licensed professionals in the format that works best for them - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging - which can make it easier to maintain continuity of care around work, family, and other commitments.
Therapists use a range of therapeutic methods in remote settings, and it is possible to change therapists if the first match does not feel right. For many individuals, online therapy provides a convenient way to access professional support while fitting treatment into a busy life.