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James Costigan, BACP

Helping men build calm and confidence
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Relationships and addiction
  • Professional pressures

About James Costigan

James Costigan is a genuine, caring, and insightful therapist who creates a supportive space where men can slow down, explore themselves, and address the obstacles keeping them from a calmer, more confident life. He specialises in working with men because he recognises that many of the pressures they face are carried in silence, and he focuses on helping clients build self-awareness, understand their emotions, and develop steadier ways to meet life’s challenges.

Choosing therapy can feel like a big step, and James works at a pace that feels right for each person, supporting them until they can approach dilemmas with greater clarity, compassion, and confidence. He stays alongside clients throughout the process with the aim of helping them grow from struggles, heal from experiences that have shaped them, and move toward the life they want.

Many men come to James with depression, anxiety, stress, relationship difficulties, addiction issues including pornography, or a sense of feeling lost. He also supports men facing professional pressures, performance expectations, and personal development challenges, drawing on his own corporate experience to relate to workplace stresses. He holds BACP accreditation, which means he is a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy and adheres to that professional body's standards.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDivorce and separationDrug and alcohol addictionEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDParanoiaPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual dysfunctionSexualitySmoking / vaping cessationSocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Mindfulness Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does James Costigan have?

He has 9 years of experience.

Is James Costigan a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the BACP credential.

In which languages does James Costigan provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English.

Where is James Costigan located?

He is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with James Costigan as my therapist?

You can work with James Costigan through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does James Costigan work with international clients?

Yes, James Costigan works with international clients.

How much does therapy with James Costigan cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could Remote Therapy Be a Good Fit for You?



Many people ask whether online therapy can truly help. For a wide range of everyday concerns - such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, or navigating life changes - online therapy can be as effective as traditional in-person sessions for most people.

One of the main advantages is flexibility. Individuals can connect with a therapist in whatever format feels most comfortable - through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging - which makes it easier to fit therapy into a busy life.

Therapists offering remote work are licensed professionals, and clients may change therapists if they feel a different fit would be more helpful. Online therapy offers a practical option for accessing professional support while balancing the demands of daily life.

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