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Ilaria Calussi, BACP

Systemic psychotherapist focused on relationships and trauma
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Couples and families
  • Neurodiversity support

About Ilaria Calussi

Ilaria Calussi is a systemic and relational psychotherapist with more than 25 years of professional experience, combining clinical practice, supervision, and teaching. They have completed extensive training in family therapy, gestalt therapy, trauma-informed cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), therapeutic play, clinical supervision, and specialist approaches for autism and ADHD. Ilaria is also a member of the BACP - the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - a professional body for counsellors and psychotherapists in the United Kingdom.

Ilaria's career has included roles in prominent mental health organisations such as Place2Be, Mind, Family Action, social care services, and the NHS. Their background spans managing school-based services, supervising children and families social care teams, and a current post at the National Autism Unit within the NHS where they support autistic people and their families. In addition to these roles, Ilaria maintains a private practice and lectures in psychology and counselling at the Open University.

They work with individuals, couples, and families on a wide range of concerns including relationship difficulties, attachment problems, trauma and abuse, neurodiversity, issues of gender and sexuality, stress, and anxiety. Their clinical style is rooted in systemic and intersectional practice and draws on attachment theory, neuroscience, and creative methods to tailor therapy to each person or family.

Personal experience of solo parenting, neurodivergence, and queer relationships informs Ilaria's down-to-earth and empathetic approach. They aim to offer a supportive space where people can explore challenges, strengthen resilience, and work toward meaningful change.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommunication problemsControl issuesDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameImmigration issuesIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMood disordersMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSelf-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Gottman Method Narrative Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy Systemic Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Ilaria Calussi have?

Ilaria Calussi has 25 years of professional experience in mental health and therapeutic work.

Is Ilaria Calussi a licensed therapist?

Yes. Ilaria Calussi holds membership of the BACP, the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. No additional licensing details were provided.

In which languages does Ilaria Calussi provide therapy?

Ilaria Calussi provides therapy in English and Italian.

Where is Ilaria Calussi located?

Ilaria Calussi is based in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Ilaria Calussi as my therapist?

Work with Ilaria Calussi is available through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Ilaria Calussi work with international clients?

Yes, Ilaria Calussi works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Ilaria Calussi cost?

The cost of therapy with Ilaria Calussi can vary depending on factors such as the client's location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current pricing and details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match the person to the therapist. Depending on availability, the first session can then be scheduled and may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could Remote Therapy Be a Good Fit?

Many people consider whether remote therapy can help with everyday struggles and more complex concerns. For common issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and navigating life transitions, online therapy has been shown to be comparable in effectiveness to traditional in-person sessions.

One major advantage is increased flexibility. People can connect with licensed professionals in the format that suits them best - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging - which can make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules or across different time zones.

Licensed professionals and therapists offer a range of therapeutic approaches online, and individuals may switch therapists if they would prefer a different fit. Remote therapy can support continuity of care and help more people access professional support when attending in person is difficult.

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