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Ciro De Pau, NCPS

Bilingual therapist for trauma and anxiety
  • English and Italian
  • Attachment-focused therapy
  • Experience with trauma

About Ciro De Pau

Ciro De Pau is an Italian-born therapist living and working in the United Kingdom who provides therapy in both English and Italian. He invites people to consider which steps they are taking to meet their emotional and psychological needs and offers support for those who find themselves saying yes when they want to say no, feeling trapped by worry and anxiety, or overwhelmed by life circumstances.

He combines an interest in unconscious patterns and behavioral habits with attention to the biology of the brain-body connection, aiming to develop a rounded understanding of issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Ciro works collaboratively to identify recurring patterns and to tailor a therapeutic approach that fits each person’s situation and goals.

His practice draws on a range of evidence-based methods, including Attachment-Based Therapy, Client-Centered Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Existential Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, and Psychodynamic Therapy. This variety of clinical approaches allows him to work with complex presentations, including childhood and adult trauma, identity concerns, PTSD, personality difficulties, panic and anxiety, eating-related challenges, and mood-related problems.

Ciro holds the NCPS credential, a professional qualification in psychotherapy. He has developed his skills through university study and hands-on clinical work supporting people facing diverse difficulties. He aims to create a respectful environment where clients can explore themselves, clarify goals, and make positive, sustainable changes to improve overall well-being and life quality.

Those interested in learning more about working with him are encouraged to get in touch to discuss possible therapeutic options and how they might fit their needs.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily problemsFatherhood issuesGuilt and shameImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPost-traumatic stressProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Existential Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Ciro De Pau have?

Ciro De Pau has 9 years of experience.

Is Ciro De Pau a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the NCPS credential. License details: .

In which languages does Ciro De Pau provide therapy?

He provides therapy in English and Italian.

Where is Ciro De Pau located?

He is located in the United Kingdom.

How can I work with Ciro De Pau as my therapist?

You can work with Ciro De Pau through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Ciro De Pau work with international clients?

Yes, Ciro De Pau works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Ciro De Pau cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could remote therapy be a good fit for you?

Many people wonder whether remote therapy can deliver meaningful change. For a range of common concerns - including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and adjusting to life changes - online therapy is considered comparable in effectiveness to traditional in-person work for most people.



One key benefit is flexibility. Individuals can choose how they connect with a therapist - whether by video call, phone session, live chat, or in-app messaging - which can make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule or to access support from a different location.



Therapists who offer remote services are licensed professionals, and if a different therapeutic fit is needed it is typically possible to switch providers. Online therapy offers an accessible way to engage with skilled clinicians and to pursue personal goals for wellbeing and growth while using communication methods that suit each person’s needs.

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