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Alexandra "Lexy" Spett, LMFT

Supporting young adults and families through life transitions
  • Late adolescent and young adult
  • Parents of emerging adults
  • Warm direct compassionate approach

About Alexandra "Lexy" Spett

Alexandra "Lexy" Spett is a California-based LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, with 24 years of clinical experience. She focuses on supporting late adolescents (16-19), young adults (20-30), and their parents as they navigate the often-challenging transition to adulthood, offering clear guidance and steady support.

She also considers working with adults ages 35-64 on a case-by-case basis. Whether clients are managing stress, anxiety, family conflict, low motivation, or struggles with self-esteem and confidence, she brings a compassionate and straightforward approach to treatment. Her work with parents of emerging adults emphasizes practical strategies for managing shifting relationships while strengthening meaningful connection with their young person.

Lexy combines warmth with direct, honest feedback, cultivating a respectful space for collaborative care. She and each client co-design a treatment plan tailored to the individual circumstances and goals in front of them. She views the first step toward change as both a courageous act and an important piece of self-care, and she is committed to helping clients identify strengths, build confidence, and move toward the life they want.

She is ready to support clients through that process, meeting them where they are and walking alongside them as they work toward clearer direction and greater emotional resilience.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

EmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsForgivenessGuilt and shameIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMood disordersSelf-loveWomen's issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Alexandra "Lexy" Spett have?

Alexandra "Lexy" Spett has 24 years of experience.

Is Alexandra "Lexy" Spett a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credential LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details are CA LMFT 37465.

In which languages does Alexandra "Lexy" Spett provide therapy?

She provides therapy in English.

Where is Alexandra "Lexy" Spett located?

She is located in California.

How can I work with Alexandra "Lexy" Spett as my therapist?

You can work with Alexandra "Lexy" Spett through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Alexandra "Lexy" Spett work with international clients?

Alexandra "Lexy" Spett does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Alexandra "Lexy" Spett cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

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One of the clearest benefits is flexibility. Clients can choose the format that works best for them - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging - making it easier to fit regular care into a busy schedule. This adaptability often helps people stay consistent with treatment.

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